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Fucking a transgender person isn't really gay.  

ftmbobbyj 37T
7 posts
4/4/2017 10:56 am
Fucking a transgender person isn't really gay.

Either way you think about it. If you are a guy fucking a trans woman you aren't gay. She's a woman and you should always think of her that way. She may have different parts, but treat her the same. That is also the case for a trans guy. He's a guy, and has parts that are different. Just enjoy and do get so caught up in genders.

AlicesexyCD 62T
123 posts
4/4/2017 4:14 pm

 Totally agree and this is the part that freaks some guys out...

quote..from a guy that wants a fuck but wont take me on a date...SO whats the issue...well if someone sees me they will think I'm gay....!!!

Oh hun...guess what we are not having sex then...if you don't like me enough to be seen with me, I don't like you enough to kiss me.

The guys that take me out, I chat to, dance with, drink with & who are lucky enough to see me with my clothes off all see me as a woman and have respect...those guys are not gay, not even close..they are straight


wannabee25 66M  
119 posts
4/5/2017 4:12 am

 IF I were to connect with a tranni and felt she was a viable person who liked being treated as a woman I would treat her as such....kissing, fondling, and touching her as I would a woman...but its been my experience that would be in the big city only....that being they would receive the big money there than in the rural areas which makes cents.....I'm particular and do like to look though!....lol


BeckyCD79 45T
5 posts
4/5/2017 8:42 am

 this is such a grey area it's not worth all the trouble to label someone. There are women out there who are only attracted to cross dressing men. Does that make them gay or straight? What about men who have strap on sex with their wives? The real question is... who cares what label fits them?


HedonicHeathen 56M
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198 posts
4/5/2017 9:20 am
    Quoting BeckyCD79:
    this is such a grey area it's not worth all the trouble to label someone. There are women out there who are only attracted to cross dressing men. Does that make them gay or straight? What about men who have strap on sex with their wives? The real question is... who cares what label fits them?
Well ha ... the reason it is such a grey area is that there are some people out there that would like to have words mean more than one thing at the same time and as such if they can pass off a series of words that seem to mean one thing to one person but become quite another to other people then there is room to play and adventure - especially if there is a chance to get sex with

So does gay mean only homosexual?
Does trans mean only transgender?
Does gender only mean biological sex?
Does straight only mean heterosexual?

Nope they all have cultural contexts ... missing those means missing the culture as well. That is not necessarily a bad thing.

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Gina_L07 67T
387 posts
4/7/2017 7:51 am

 If a guy is comfortable in his sexuality, then this should not bother or be an issue with him. It should not even come up in the conversation although a tgal should know up front how they feel about it. However if it is an issue, then please let it be known. We don't need someone to freak out like the guy in the crying game movie. One thing I don't pretend to do is hide what I have down there just to justify their feelings (and contain their guilt) that they are with a woman and not a transwoman. Just be honest and forthright. Take care and be safe. Ciao.


xcoaster1tx 42M  
1 post
5/24/2017 2:37 pm

 have a way to contact you outside here?


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